Shop Assistants Should Know How To Praise Customers Moderately.

When someone asks, "you will."

People? You may say, of course, this is very simple! Praise is a potential that everyone has and everyone will have. The question is whether you will use it, whether it will be timely and suitable, and bring good mood and enjoyment to the people.

Otherwise, far fetched praise and harsh compliments will not only embarrass you, but also make everything you want to do with half the effort and give people the suspicion of "flattery".

There is a good saying: the distance between praise and flattery is only one step away.

Praise is a flattery, so when praising others, we must pay attention to the object of praise and the way of praising.

A clothing store owner of a clothing store is very flattering.

When she met her tight clothes, she said, "your clothes are wonderful.

When she met her thin clothes, she added, "your clothes are really good and your fabrics are good."

A clothing store customer asked her: "when you meet everyone who says that people are good at clothing, from a professional point of view, what is a good dress?"

She hesitated for a moment and said, "do you want to hear the truth?"

Shop customers nodded.

She said, "to tell you the truth, I think the baldness is so good that you can take care of our business and wear nothing."

After listening to him, the clothing store customer psychology is very uncomfortable, and this is a satire.

And never came again.

Therefore, in interpersonal communication, flattery must be skillfully said and clever, and should not be exaggerated or improperly flattered. Otherwise, it will be misunderstood, and will be looked down upon by others. This is undoubtedly a stumbling block that will affect your good interpersonal relationship.

Sincere, heartfelt compliments are reconciling agents for interpersonal relationships, and are the most effective emotional investments. Flattery is another form of praise.

But all along, many people have a bias, that is, those who are good at flattering people are called "apple polisher", as if these people are so low in character and shame on people.

In fact, this is a misunderstanding of interpersonal relationship.

After careful observation, you will find that the people around you are talking about flattery more or less, but the way is ingenious.

As for the increasingly complicated interpersonal relationship, it is not only a bad thing but also a good thing to say more about flattery.

For example, a smart shopkeeper often says, "madam is a good sight. This is the latest fashion in our country. It will be more beautiful on you." in a few words, the lady must smile and her business will be made.

A salesperson who sells cosmetics will say, "Miss temperament is very good. I have never seen such a fine skin of miss. Miss has chosen a series of skin care products produced by our company, which will protect your skin better."

However, the first condition for flattering others is to have a sincere heart and a serious attitude.

Words can reflect a person's psychology, so he has no intention or a rash manner of speaking. He can easily see the other side and make the other person feel unhappy.

Moreover, when we flatter others, we must not tell a difference of one hundred and eight thousand miles from the fact.

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If the method is right, it will make people feel happy when they hear the compliments. Otherwise, they will even play an opposite role.