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Tips For Conquering Bosses In The Workplace

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The boss's face will be changed by misfortune or bad luck.

If something fails, the sadness in their hearts is far from what you can imagine as a subordinate.

From this we can see that the boss seems to be very proud on the surface.

In fact, they all stand in a serious position and strive hard.

Besides the completion of work, they also shoulder heavy responsibilities in their families.

If he is healthy and energetic, he is also very handy in his work. Everyone in the company thinks he has a bright future, but one day, he suddenly reveals sadness, so it must be a problem at home.

Although he did not speak out, he had been trying to suppress it, but naturally he would show his expression of distress on his face.

You can't help noticing the subtle changes in facial expressions and facial expressions.

When the boss feels the most vulnerable, comfort him. This is the understanding and kindness of his subordinates.

No matter what the situation is, it is hard to achieve "first served, then accepted", but we should not keep things in mind.

If I often put it on the lips, "at that time, I helped the chief shareholder,..."

The head of the stock will also feel unhappy.

In this way, your help will be turned into smoke.

It is good for others to know what is good for others.

But in general, we should not ask for this, as long as we get the satisfaction of conscience.

For the boss to successfully complete the task, take the initiative to help him, must not ask for a reward, or ask the other party to reward.

Otherwise, every effort you make will become zero.

Another point is important: never be above your boss.

A good mind always comes up with a limelight. Such a person often leads his boss to feel bad about him.

No matter when anyone's subordinates are scolded or warned or criticized for their shortcomings, everyone will feel unhappy.

So if someone rebukes you in the face, you will be angry and think "you don't have to say I know it," and angry and blush.

No wonder.

If you do not suppress anger and act impulsively, you will regret afterwards.

Therefore, when you want to be angry, you'd better remember in your heart: "wait a minute!"

It has been suggested that it is better to put matches on their hands and trousers and break them one by one, so that anger can be suppressed.

This is an atmosphere pformation method.

When you are being scolded or are being scolded, you may wish to use this method to calm your anger.

People who are more positive can be scolded and will be fine.

But once a negative person feels humiliated by being reprimanded, he will not lose his temper. Instead, he will be disappointed by the idea of "Alas, I really can not".

Whether the strong or the weak, their own

mood

It should not be disturbed by others' reproach, but should remain flexible. Often remain calm. When you are scolded, just bow your head and admit your mistake.

  

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It is embarrassing to be rebutted by subordinates.

However, it is natural for subordinates to be scolded by their superiors.

Now that the boss has reprimanded him, I must simply apologize. This is the lovely attitude of subordinates.

People who can criticize your shortcomings and mistakes can improve their personality and have a connotation.

Therefore, being criticized can help you improve.

When your boss asks you to do something, you have to consider carefully whether it is competent for yourself or not against your conscience.

If it is just for the sake of momentary love, even if it is impossible to do, then the boss will not consider your enthusiasm once he fails, and will only evaluate you with the result of this failure.

You have to tailor yourself to yourself, but you feel hard to do it.

Entrust

The heart of these people seems to be too soft.

Even if you are entrusted with your good boss, but you really can't do it, you should express your attitude very clearly and say, "I'm sorry, I can't do it."

This is the real courage.

Otherwise, you will miss things.

If you think this is a matter for your boss to ask you, refuse to refuse, or fear rejection, your boss will be unhappy and accept it, then you will be in a difficult position.

Those who are reluctant to offend their superiors will be sorry after agreeing, but it is too late.

Although subordinates are subordinate to their superiors in their positions, they should be independent in personality, not subordinates to their superiors, nor is it a person who does not distinguish good from evil and has everything to obey.

Subordinates are not slaves. If your boss has helped you a lot in the past, now he wants to entrust you to do something unreasonable or inappropriate, and you should refuse it resolutely and decisively.

This is for the boss good, but also the right way to repay him.


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