Workplace Social Networking: How Close And Intimate Are You?

It is often complained that some "friends" took part in the trip with this friend. He only carried a small bag and everything else was in my box. I was not his mother. The friend asked me for samples every time, and I didn't owe him anything.

And so on, and so on, are caused by the unequal identification of each other.

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It is easier to be confused by the close relationship between many "friends".

Some people just come to introduce to you, this is my buddy, the fund company, after frying stock to find him "news"; in a moment this "news" will ask you: what is the person who introduced me just now? For the social master, these are the normal range of multiple incidents, a smile can be laughed out.

For real people, these incidents are not only hypocritical, but can also bring emotional harm.

A private party organizer told me something about their members who were sick in the small circle.

The organizers only looked for 6 recent members, but was rejected by one of them because he thought they were not so familiar.

This is very much like a pair of lovers who invest deeply in different degrees. When one party has found a lucky day for a banquet on the lunar calendar, the other party is still broadcasting everywhere: I am still single, and introduce it to me soon.

The dislocation between the two sides is not surprising.

A lot of human relationships in big cities are easy to breed.

For example, some colleagues, because of the relationship between business gatherings.

The frequency can reach several times a month, far beyond the most iron students and their closest relatives.

But are they familiar? When you get upset at home, you will never go to these familiar peers.

There are also people who are confused by the warm atmosphere of social occasions to talk to "very familiar" colleagues. The last stage is the whole industry's upstream and downstream, which is circulating his gossip entertainment.

The most unreliable acquaintance is because

Arising from need.

Most of the people in high positions are surrounded by a pile of acquaintances.

On birthday, you will receive a bunch of gifts from acquaintances. When you are sick, a bunch of acquaintances come to visit.

After leaving this position, especially after leaving the industry, all of these acquaintances are gone.

After half a year, you can't even remember who this person is, though he gave more gifts than your lover.

I know someone who has been hurt after leaving.

He was in a low ebb after leaving office, and some of his acquaintances came out to chat, but none of them could come out.

This is actually unrequited love.

You think you are very familiar friends. They only think they are professional needs.